Probably every girl has at least once wondered how to congratulate her ex on his birthday, and whether it is worth doing it at all. If you woke up in the morning with the thought “I want to congratulate my ex on his birthday,” you need to do it in a way that is beautiful and memorable for a long time.
Destruction of psychological stereotypes
In most cases, it is not so much the former lovers themselves, but the environment that dictates certain rules. It begins to seem that this is not a loved one at all (even if he is a former one), but some kind of personal enemy. Whether to wish your ex a happy birthday or not - the decision is yours. But in any case, this is not direct evidence that you are unable to live without him or cannot forget him. Rather, it is a sign of spiritual maturity, the ability to forgive and inner nobility.
Deciding on the motive
Before you wish your ex a happy birthday, you need to figure out the reason why such a desire arose. Based on this, you can already choose the appropriate option.
If you just want to congratulate your ex-other half out of respect, a congratulation on a social network with a postcard will do. Did you manage to remain friends? Then it is not at all necessary to emphasize the “ex” status - you can send a message or call. This is provided that he does not have a lover, and with your call you will not ruin not only the holiday, but also other people’s relationships.
Several reasons for congratulations
Even if you and your spouse did not part well, certain factors oblige you to congratulate:
When is it better to refrain from congratulations?
There are a number of cases when it is better to refuse the impulse to congratulate your ex on his birthday, so as not to aggravate the situation:
Congratulations in prose
If you have absolutely no desire to congratulate your past love in poetry, or you don’t think this option is very appropriate, you can beautifully congratulate your ex on his birthday simply with words. The main thing here is that the words are written and spoken from the heart. For example, like this:
- Congratulations on your birthday! We may not be together anymore, but I really want you to be happy. Love and be loved. May every day be a reason for joy and smiles, and may your wishes come true.
- We may no longer walk the same path, but I congratulate you on your day! Today you start new stage life, it's your personal New Year. Take into it all the good things that happened before and leave the bad things in the past. I wish everything works out for you.
- Congratulations on your birthday! Remain the same brave, strong and attractive man I once fell in love with. And even though we parted, for me you are still a close person. Thank you for the time you gave me.
- If you have ex-husband If you have a child, you can congratulate you this way: Happy birthday! We may not be together now, but for our son (daughter) you are the best dad in the world! We wish that all your wishes come true. I wish you good health and success in your business. Thank you for our warm memories, and for the fact that we have the most beloved and dear person- our child. Hugs.
- If on the eve of your ex’s birthday it happened an important event, for example, moving to another country, wedding, opening a new business, then you can choose other words. For example: Happy birthday to you! So what you dreamed about has happened! Hold your dream tightly with your hands and don’t give it to anyone. May new opportunities appear in your life, great love that will last a lifetime. Good luck, success in your work and peace with yourself and others. Let it be in your life more joy and smiles!
Congratulations in verse
In those cases when you absolutely don’t know what to say, and congratulations in prose seem stupid, ready-made creations in verse will come to the rescue:
I won’t shout pretentious words,
And magical wishes too,
I want to wish you health and happiness,
There is nothing more expensive in the world!
Here's another good option:
Even though you and I parted a long time ago
And the flame of feelings has long gone out,
Our dates remain in memory,
Dear ones, dear to us.
Happy birthday to you
With all my heart I want
Love you the same, eternal,
Make your dream come true.
You can choose another verse:
Happy birthday, once beloved,
I remember your birthday
I hope today is happy,
Without a doubt, pleased with himself.
You and I remain friends
And I hope I can congratulate you,
Simply by sending a message,
Send a kiss instead of a period.
You know, I’m still jealous of you,
But in my heart I wish well,
May the heavenly angel help
And he will always be with you.
Birthday as a way of reconciliation
If you broke up with your loved one just recently, then your birthday is a good reason to improve your relationship. The main thing is to do it unobtrusively.
What did your loved one dream about when you were together? Maybe it's a gift certificate for go-karting, a T-shirt with the symbols of your favorite band or hockey team, a season ticket to Gym or a set of tools? Think about it. Look for a gift you like, call and congratulate your loved one. If you can arrange a meeting on the birthday itself or in the coming days after it, buy a gift. Maybe your ex will stop being the past and become an amazing present.
Everything that happened is long gone,
There is no more resentment
I'll send you a message with your wishes,
On your wonderful birthday.
Former friend, I congratulate you,
I wish you happiness, joy and beauty,
Blooming tender May,
May all your dreams come true.
I'm not mad at you at all,
On the contrary, I’m trying to make peace,
Although a lot of time has passed,
I want us to be lucky to meet.
It's your birthday, congratulations,
I mentally hug you,
As a friend, only an ex, I wish you happiness,
Let all bad weather pass you by.
Everything is forgotten, the quarrel is far away,
We take everything easy now,
The bridges of our friendship have been burned,
You and I are to blame for this.
Ex-girlfriend, I wish you happiness,
Love, good luck and life without bad weather,
You deserve a lot without a doubt
I sincerely congratulate you on your birthday.
Even though you ex-girlfriend my,
I want to congratulate you on your birthday,
It's sincere, just believe me
The door in my heart is not yet tightly closed.
And whatever happens between us then,
We have become ardent and hated enemies,
I wish only good things for you today,
So that you love and are happy.
My dear sweet but ex-girlfriend,
We will probably always respect each other,
And of course I remember about your holiday,
We once celebrated it vigorously with you.
Happy Birthday, I congratulate you from the bottom of my heart,
Never be offended, I beg you,
Even if there was something wrong between us,
Know that I am more your friend than your enemy.
We haven't seen each other for a long time, almost an eternity,
I think about you only sometimes,
But in the soul the fire burns with warmth, cordiality,
My ex-friend is behind you.
I remember your birthday, congratulations,
I wish you joy, happiness and goodness,
Let them visit you, at least occasionally,
Memories of our former friendship.
Darling, even though you and I are in a quarrel now,
But hello, accept my congratulations,
I know that soon the clouds in the sky will certainly clear away,
And everything will be fine with you and me.
Be happy, my love, always,
I wish that your cherished dream comes true,
May there never be room for sadness,
May the Lord protect you from troubles.
With you we shared joy and pain,
We trusted our secrets.
But life got in the way, and now you and I
They became former friends.
But I always remember your birthday,
Today I congratulate you.
And happiness, good luck and warmth in the house,
As before, I wish you.
I wish you love and peace in your soul,
And let joy not be superfluous.
I wish you more new friends,
Since the old ones have already become old.
Let us communicate infrequently,
But you were always radiant.
From my heart I wish you happiness,
Be beautiful and young.
Be sure. Without a doubt
You move forward in life
With a proud step, but from excitement
May fate protect you.
Be refined and desirable -
On your birthday and day after day.
And love for you - the ocean,
Enjoy every moment in it.
It happens that we do not fully get what we want: love does not come true, dreams do not come true, roads diverge. But all good things are not forgotten, and life knows the right path better than us. Happy birsday, my dear! Let, despite fate, everything cherished come, your plans come true, your plans come true, let happiness knock on the door every day. I wish you goodness, peace, understanding, harmony in the soul, a smile on your face.
Despite all the grievances that we experienced,
Happy Birthday. Let your dreams come true.
You are worthy of respect, you are worthy of all flowers,
So accept congratulations - a couple of kind, gentle words.
Be wise, honest, beautiful - to the envy of everyone, to the evil of everyone.
May you always be fabulously lucky in all your ideas.
So that you always relax only in fabulous places,
So that she loves and dreams only with a smile on her lips.
May we not be so close,
But there were friendships for years,
I remember them not without melancholy,
But nothing lasts forever.
I'm on your birthday
I wish you all the best in the world,
And to true friend in fate
Suddenly appeared just like that!
So that everyone's dreams come true,
I wish you from my heart,
After all, you are a good man,
Believe me, I know this!
There is time between us, maybe distance,
But the souls of the past days were warmed with warmth.
Listen to my confession
After all, for me you were the best.
Friend, sweetheart, dear,
Even if it’s an ex, but still,
I congratulate you on your birthday,
After all, the memory of you is most precious.
Be happy, don't worry,
Give joy with a simple smile,
May all your roads be easy,
Health, happiness, sincere love!
We shared joy, tears,
Together we created dreams,
And fantasies, dreams,
The two were equal.
But fate separated us
You're no longer close anymore
But, friend, I wish
All the best and congratulations!
Happy birthday, I'll say
I wish fate
For you, only, wonderful,
And a remarkable success.
Let goodness only surround you,
Fills the heart with light,
Be healthy, don't get sick,
Don't regret mistakes!
We were close friends with you,
But now we communicate infrequently,
I didn’t forget about your birthday,
I wish you a lot of happiness!
I also wish you kindness,
Everything you want will certainly come true,
Let there be a lot of love in life,
And then all the bad things will be forgotten.
Today I sincerely wish you
Even though our paths diverged,
May your days be like heaven
And in general, life will be more fun.
May the most luxurious bouquets
They always show off in your hands,
Let men bathe in compliments
And they carry you everywhere in their arms!
Today is your birthday!
Do you remember, you and I are together,
We walked under the moon,
Shared nonsense
They grumbled about their lives,
They laughed until they hurt!
Together we looked boldly into the distance,
Those days are gone, alas, it’s a pity...
You and I have a lot in common
Mysteries and little secrets
Now the roads have diverged,
But today is not about that.
Happy birthday,
Be happy, like in a fairy tale,
Let love play in you
Adding color to your feelings!
Dear friend, accept congratulations,
Don't be offended by me anymore
You and I just had a misunderstanding,
And our quarrel is not worth a damn.
I wish you to be lucky in everything,
I wish you all the best, joy, goodness,
May there often be a happy occasion in life,
And the sadness will go away forever.
Today is your holiday, your birthday,
First of all, please accept my apologies.
I am to blame for our quarrel,
And this torments me greatly.
Dear friend, be happy,
Forget about all your worries,
Let love surround you
May the Lord protect you from troubles and evil.
We best friends with you,
We can’t part because of a quarrel alone,
Let's forget all the hurtful words,
Happy birthday, I sincerely congratulate you.
May the road of life be long,
Let sadness forget your address,
Let beautiful love meet you,
May everything be fine in your destiny.
You and I have been close friends since childhood,
And our quarrel is some kind of nonsense,
Let's forget this misunderstanding
And we will have fun celebrating your birthday.
May everything work out great for you,
Let the salary be decent,
So that opportunities and desires coincide,
So that the constellations of love shine above you.
You are the birthday girl today, congratulations,
All the best, friend, I sincerely wish you,
For offending you in vain,
I sincerely apologize to you.
My best friend, happy birthday,
I wish you to be in a great mood,
Always be desired and loved,
May fate generously reward you.
Your birthday is a wonderful day
And on my soul there is a shadow of sadness,
After all, you and I are now in a quarrel,
Let's make peace, friend, on your holiday.
I wish you to always be on top,
May everything be perfect in your destiny,
May beautiful love inspire you,
Let happiness know no boundaries.
Remorse torments me
After all, I myself am to blame for our quarrel,
Please accept congratulations on your birthday,
And don't hold a grudge against me anymore.
Let your life flow like a full river,
May luck always accompany you,
Let reliable friends surround you,
Let there be enough vigor and strength for everything.
We quarreled with you over a trifle,
It’s time for us to make peace, friend,
Let's forget all the bad things forever,
May our friendship be strong as before.
Today is your birthday, congratulations,
I sincerely wish you well-being in everything,
Be beautiful, gentle, sweet,
And, most importantly, be healthy and happy.
Over 30 years old is no longer a young man.
In general, in order to offend a person, you need to forget about his birthday and not congratulate him. And if he doesn’t care about you, then you won’t offend him with any gift. You will only make yourself look like an idiot who gets offended by a person and spends her energy, time and money on a gift for him.
zero friends. 15 people will definitely congratulate you.
Lots of ways! The main thing is to have imagination :)
If this is a loved one, then you can make a decorative pillow with your photo.
You can give a cup with inscriptions to the best man/friend/colleague.
You can just as easily give a girl a glass with an engraving. The engraving goes with "Hurray" no matter what it is on.
You can give money, but present it in a special way... Pack it like treasure, in a chest, then organize a search for the treasure. Hide it somewhere, write clues and the person must look for it. (Hints can even be in the style of: dance to get the next one). Both fun and a gift.
If a person likes various strong drinks, you can present glasses, pour a certain drink into each of them and ask the person to determine what is what.
Of course, you can have a girl/boyfriend in the cake.
You can give fireworks.
You can organize an album of memories - collect childhood photos, wishes from friends, funny incidents...
You can make a giant bouquet of flower-shaped balloons.
A gift should be from the heart, no matter how much it costs, for a person who has everything, the cost of the gift is no longer relevant...
wallet, cologne, good trouser belt, shoulder bag
A lot and they start in the MORNING, when I’m still sleeping
Necessarily! It’s not for nothing that he hangs among his friends....
